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When you feel the overwhelm coming on, stop what you are doing and immediately go get a Klondike bar! I guarantee you'll feel better!

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Apr 25, 2023Liked by Karen Sargent

"Nobody is keeping score..." Wow. I think so much of our anxiety (mine anyway) comes from the assumption that everybody else has a little score card for our performance at life, and I always figure mine says "flunked" 😂

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Yes! And if you really think about this, we think it because we are focused on ourselves. Everyone else is thinking about their own stuff, not us.

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Apr 25, 2023Liked by Karen Sargent

That's so true! Musette Sexton always told the teenage girls not to be so self-conscious, because chances were that nobody even noticed when they came into the room. It's liberating when you realize that.

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Yes! I knew someone used to say that but couldn’t remember who. Muzette was so wise!

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Apr 25, 2023Liked by Karen Sargent

This is why I give myself permission to say “you would do a much better job on this list than me, with a lot less stress” and leave it to the hubs. Sometimes it’s good to challenge myself and other times I just don’t have to.

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Totally agree! I am working on it. 😬

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