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Amos A's avatar

So much of this resonates. I don’t have PTSD, I have anxiety. And I feel like when I say that people think “so you worry too much? That’s not a big deal.” I think others think that because I used to, too. I also used to think therapy was for Hollywood weirdos—but when I finally bit the bullet, it wound up being better than I could have hoped.

Your description of people-pleasing (one of my best, most frustrating skills) was spot on. “It was my way of controlling the emotional temperature of my environment.” That’s so true, and it’s why (for me) stepping away from those tendencies felt unsafe. Thank you for being vulnerable! This was a good read.

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John Luccioni's avatar

This was so good , as usual. And so needed at this point in my life. Thanks Karen!

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