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Diana Hinkle's avatar

Thank you for sharing across the table. I too have felt weird because I have not cried for mom yet. I cried from release I suppose when they took her body from the house the last time. Sometimes I think I need to sit and concentrate on her leaving so maybe I will face my grief. But then I always find something to run do. I feel ready to go in her room and pack her belongings today. But I will probably face it as a chore not removing my mom’s things. I know people and John say I will grieve in my own way and time. I am the kind of person that needs a time and place to put on my calendar.

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Kirstin L. Olson's avatar

I've been scarce around Substack lately (writing AND reading), and yours is one I'm excited to come back and see. This is the first one I came across again, and I'm so sorry for your grief. What a beautiful picture of the "the ties that bind" both back in time and across the veil: families and souls and cultural touchstones and the mismatch of pot and burner. :) Peace to you this week.

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